Stop Complaining and start living!



Isn’t it easier to complain about all the bad things that happens in your life? Isn’t it easier to play with blame game and never accept the reality? Well actually, it is! Don’t get me wrong, I said it’s easier and not better. Complaining can only be a short-term relief, never a long term. If you want long term happiness, there is only one way, stop complaining and start loving and living.

Complaining is a natural phenomenon for us. If someone says he never complains, he is lying. We all complain but the difference is that the successful people accept it and look to find a solution. A rich mindset will always look forward to the accept, correct and improve formula.

A great leader will not hesitate to show where you have done wrong, but he will never compare you with others. He will correct you but never complains. He will accept what is right and what is wrong and will never play a blame game. On the other hand, the poor mindset will keep on complaining to ease off the pressure, to take the blame away from himself. He may think that he is right but deep inside he also knows that something is wrong. To hide that feeling, he will blame others for his failure.

Well look at it practically, when you complain about anything, do you feel any positive vibe? Do you feel good? The answer is a big NO! Why? Because you are just looking at the negative side of everything. I don’t get marks because the teachers are not good. I can’t prepare for competitive exams because of my family backgrounds. Our company cannot outperform the competitors because they are already settled, and we are only new to this. It’s because of the previous governments, that we are seeing such a debacle in the economy. These are only some of the complains. With so much negativity how one can expect positive results.


Just look at all these statements with a different perspective. The student who topped the class is also taking classes from the same group of teachers. A UPSC (the toughest exam in India) aspirant who used to carry luggage for people in the station, cleared the exam, thanks to the Wi-Fi connection at the platform. What’s your excuse? The company who is the leading market share today was once in your position. A brand-new name with so many top-level competitors. But instead of complaining about the present situation, it took steps to create a market base and today is one of the successful leaders in the corporate world. The previous government has laid the foundations and showed you what not to do. Work in the way that you won’t commit such errors.

The point is, there is always a bright side to every situation. Just a change in thinking can bring positive results for you. You need to understand the power of your subconscious mind. It accepts the fact you tell it. If you keep putting all kinds of negative statements, it will also process this negativity leading to your downfall. Then why don’t fill your subconscious mind with some exciting news every day. The more the positive thoughts, the more will be chance of achieving better results.

Life is a struggle. Agreed! But, if that word does not exist, then you will never be able feel the importance of success. Every inspirational success story consists of rejection, criticism, failures and struggles but they all come out of top in those crunch moments. That’s why their stories become a ray of hope to others. But, how come they handle so much downfall in their life? It’s because they don’t complain but instead, use that energy to improve themselves.

If you want to chase your dreams, stop complaining and start following it. If you want to achieve your goals, stop complaining and start working. If you want to achieve success, then stop complaining and start improving.

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