Live and Love Life

When a smile automatically comes to your face when you hear the word friends, it’s a sign that you are living a great life. Friends are a mixture of all your emotions and love. They are like family to many. They are there for you in your joy, sorrow, highs and lows and sometimes becomes the most important people in your life. They are like a shadow in the sun, an aid to your wounds, a hope in your life and a love in your doom. William Shakespeare, regarded as the most eminent English writer defined friends as the one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow. The definition is as beautiful as his write ups. A friend is not a person who only loves you but also understand you and help you to scale new heights in your life. He may be a dreamer sometimes or can be realistic. A great one knows when to be a motivate us and when to caution us. Choosing and making friends are as impor...

Self-love is a very delicate and mis-understood concept. Most people generally think that they love themselves and take care of themselves and some even mix or get confuse it with self-obsession. First let's try to understand it. Suppose a person wants to learn a new hobby or skill and he perfected it. He will be delighted and will be proud of himself. This is what most people think of self-love. Now if that person due to any reason failed to acquire that skill or hobby, he feels low, he starts judging his potential. This is where the concept of self-love comes up. As Lord Buddha said, you deserve your love and affection. Self-love like any other aura is neither unconditional or a thing to show to everyone. It should not be linked with any achievement. It is a life-long care of ourselves. So, if we fail to learn anything new, instead of doubting ourselves, we should try to find out what we are doing wrong. It can be due to improper planning, some external...

Every individual wants to be successful, wants to earn name and fame but, not everyone achieve this. Many creative minds go unnoticed. The problem is not that they don’t get opportunities. It is when they get one, they don’t think big and don’t approach it in a right way. It is true that opportunities are scarce. So one needs to use the slightest opening he gets.  For that to happen, two things are of utmost importance.  “ Attitude of a person ” and “ How big his/her vision is ”. ATTITUDE   Attitude is a very sensitive word. Some use it in a positive way, others in a negative way. Well, to be honest attitude should be deal in a positive way as without this, a person is nothing. If you don’t have the right attitude you can’t achieve anything. It is very close to your confidence level. It is a double-edged sword. A positive one can help you in achieving your dream while a negative one can do the opposite thing. Life has many ups and downs. It’s up to you how...

Have you ever been in a phase when you are just imagining a situation and it just got messier with your thoughts? In fact you imagine all sorts of things which will never gonna happen but you just think it will. What's the point! Well, only thing which comes after all this non-sense is that your rage increases and you start feeling low and restless. And the worst thing! Maybe because of this you will lose your identity and you end up fighting with someone close to you. Then it will be a very tall order to get things normal right. Then why we always do such things? Well I am not a psychologist so I don't know the reason but I think we can control this. Generally we do such things when we are feeling alone and don't have anything to do. Suddenly a past event pops up and we go on making it a like a bad dream. Why? Do we have that much free time to focus on such things? No! Then why we should do that. We have lots of work to do in our lives. If even after this we hav...