Live and Love Life

While I was growing up, I heard the word ‘Perfectionist’ many times. It was used for many legends. Be it Aamir Khan (Indian Actor), Sachin Tendulkar (Cricketer), Roger Federer (Tennis Player) to name a few. However, I thought perfectionist means to be the best in everything. So, I tried to develop many hobbies from painting, singing, poetry, dancing, piano, writing, to be a person who is always ready to help. So, whenever anyone said to me Mr. Perfect than it meant everything to me. Although it was great to know many things at once, but when it came to master everything I know, instead of enjoying all those things a burden was created on me. It was like why am I doing this? Will this change the view how people see me? (as I was a little shy and I couldn’t speak face to face well so many believed that I was a negative person who is too busy to speak to anyone) At last, I realized that I am not being myself and I am not the same person any more. There was...

Motivational books, videos, seminars, talks and writeups! In today’s world, where depression is on the rise, a lot of people are searching for positivity and motivation in their lives. It has become so important that it is a skill nowadays. People who are self-motivated and who can motivate others are in demand by schools, colleges, business firms and the government as well. But the problem is, people don’t try to understand why they are being less motivated. As a result, when they read, listen or see anything inspirational, they get motivated for some time but after a while, all is lost in the air. They need to understand themselves, what they really want and whether it is good for them or not. Check this link to find about Self Love Motivation is an inner feeling. No one can make you feel it for a long time, they can only guide you to find your fire burning inside you. First, let’s understand why motivation is important for any person. You all have come acr...

Learning lessons in life is not a challenge, implementing them is. Every individual irrespective of what or where he/she is, learns something new about life from time to time. I believe one can learn from anything. As long as it teaches something good, it doesn’t matter what is the source . It can be books, experiences and even non-living things and characters. These lessons are important not only because they show us the right path but also because they give us a chance to correct our mistakes. Like each of us have different mindset, these lessons are also different for everyone. Some people choose optimistic over realistic while others do the opposite. The reason? Maybe they have different experiences, lifestyle and mentality. So, for every individual to think alike is not possible and we don’t need that either, otherwise the world will be a boring place and we will never be able to understand the importance of anything. Books are the rich source of life ...

Have you ever been in a phase when you are just imagining a situation and it just got messier with your thoughts? In fact you imagine all sorts of things which will never gonna happen but you just think it will. What's the point! Well, only thing which comes after all this non-sense is that your rage increases and you start feeling low and restless. And the worst thing! Maybe because of this you will lose your identity and you end up fighting with someone close to you. Then it will be a very tall order to get things normal right. Then why we always do such things? Well I am not a psychologist so I don't know the reason but I think we can control this. Generally we do such things when we are feeling alone and don't have anything to do. Suddenly a past event pops up and we go on making it a like a bad dream. Why? Do we have that much free time to focus on such things? No! Then why we should do that. We have lots of work to do in our lives. If even after this we hav...