Live and Love Life

Setting goals is easier than it sounds. You just need to set it smartly and by saying this word, I mean, to use the technique “S.M.A.R.T.” In this age when we have smart phone, smart tv, smart class then why not smart goal. S.M.A.R.T. is just an acronym which is developed to ease out goal setting process. S = Specific M= Measurable A= Attainable R= Relevant T = Time bound Specific Clarity is needed everywhere, be it communication or management, then why it should be used in goal setting . The clearer the goal, the better will be to focus and to make decisions . This goal should specify why do you want to accomplish the given objective. For a student, getting marks is important, so his goal can be to get good marks. Suppose he says that his goal is to achieve good marks. He is not specific why he wants good marks. On the other hand, if he says I want good marks so that I get recognized by my classmates. Here, he has specified the reason for his goal...

Did you ever think why everyone is different from others? I think the answer is because every individual has a different mission to complete. What, when, where, why and how it is to be completed depends on the person. Your life goals are the mission you have been given to complete during your journey on earth to make it meaningful. It’s up to you what you choose and how you fulfill it. Goals are important, not only to a single person alone, but for an industry, the government and the world as well. Completion of individual goals will help the industry to grow, which in turn helps the country to develop and finally makes the world to prosper. This also shows that to accomplish your bigger goals, you need to break them in small parts and complete them one by one. When it comes to choosing your goals, you need to know yourself. Goals are not just getting a job. There are lots of goals for you to achieve such as social goals, relationship goals, luxury goals, etc. But, for ea...

In this modern era, technology has increased significantly. It has made people closer to each other but somewhere down the line, it has robbed us from the most important thing for us, that is self-love. We are constantly comparing ourselves to others, developing habits, behavior and skills like others. As a result, we are not valuing what we are and because of that, many people are no longer the same person they used to be. This may be the prime reason that depression has increased significantly in the 21 st century, specially in case of teenagers. Losing or getting rejection from jobs, loved ones, failing to perform important tasks or becoming a victim of bullying. The reason can be many but, the solution to remain a positive person and never going into depression is one: The Practice of Self-Love. https://liveandlovelifeak.blogspot.com/2018/12/self-love.html   (Check this link to know the meaning of self love.) Self-love is unconditional and life-long love for yo...

Self-love is a very delicate and mis-understood concept. Most people generally think that they love themselves and take care of themselves and some even mix or get confuse it with self-obsession. First let's try to understand it. Suppose a person wants to learn a new hobby or skill and he perfected it. He will be delighted and will be proud of himself. This is what most people think of self-love. Now if that person due to any reason failed to acquire that skill or hobby, he feels low, he starts judging his potential. This is where the concept of self-love comes up. As Lord Buddha said, you deserve your love and affection. Self-love like any other aura is neither unconditional or a thing to show to everyone. It should not be linked with any achievement. It is a life-long care of ourselves. So, if we fail to learn anything new, instead of doubting ourselves, we should try to find out what we are doing wrong. It can be due to improper planning, some external...

Every individual wants to be successful, wants to earn name and fame but, not everyone achieve this. Many creative minds go unnoticed. The problem is not that they don’t get opportunities. It is when they get one, they don’t think big and don’t approach it in a right way. It is true that opportunities are scarce. So one needs to use the slightest opening he gets.  For that to happen, two things are of utmost importance.  “ Attitude of a person ” and “ How big his/her vision is ”. ATTITUDE   Attitude is a very sensitive word. Some use it in a positive way, others in a negative way. Well, to be honest attitude should be deal in a positive way as without this, a person is nothing. If you don’t have the right attitude you can’t achieve anything. It is very close to your confidence level. It is a double-edged sword. A positive one can help you in achieving your dream while a negative one can do the opposite thing. Life has many ups and downs. It’s up to you how...

Have you ever been in a phase when you are just imagining a situation and it just got messier with your thoughts? In fact you imagine all sorts of things which will never gonna happen but you just think it will. What's the point! Well, only thing which comes after all this non-sense is that your rage increases and you start feeling low and restless. And the worst thing! Maybe because of this you will lose your identity and you end up fighting with someone close to you. Then it will be a very tall order to get things normal right. Then why we always do such things? Well I am not a psychologist so I don't know the reason but I think we can control this. Generally we do such things when we are feeling alone and don't have anything to do. Suddenly a past event pops up and we go on making it a like a bad dream. Why? Do we have that much free time to focus on such things? No! Then why we should do that. We have lots of work to do in our lives. If even after this we hav...